Emotional Impact Of Pronouns

Accusing " You " Statement

1) Your son misbehaved in school again. What are you going to do about it .

2) You never want to go anywhere with me

3) You didn't tell me you were going to work late .


Coorperative " We " Statement

1) Our son misbehaved in school again . What should we do about it?

2) We need to find things to do we can both enjoy

3) We need a better system of keeping each other informed when one of us is going to be late .



See the differences between " You" and " Us " ??


Jun Yan .