Sunday, October 18, 2009

When arguments break out , guildelines for constructive quarreling

Guideline 1: Quarrel one thing at one time

- Drag out every conflict we/they had since Day One

Guildeline2: "Hit and Run"drivers are not allowed under any circumstances.

- You probably know what we are talking about even before we explain it .

Guildeline3: Keep your voice as calm as possible

- When we shout at people, we are deafening them . The other has to shout louder in self-defense if one  person shouts .

Guildeline4: Keep to the truth

- People who are quarreling thend to exaggerate their complaint or throw a red-herring lies into the argument.

Guildeline5: Don't go in to the blaming game

- Remember everyone is involved .

Guildeline6: Don't play silent game . Say openly and honestly

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