Personal spaces

i heard a sentence from Mr.Murali in the lecture..
"all people need personal spaces, although two people in relationship, and we should realise."
it make me think a matter of my friend...

two weeks ago, my friend post a blog in the web, she write something about her and the guy she like.
she just write the post like have hint meaning, she didn't write in clearly because she don't want let other know.
after a few days, she called me and told me that she is very stress.
she said, "you should update my blog to know my things but don't ask anything."
i reply her, "i know you, i know if you want to tell me you will tell."
she said, "yes, you are right."
she told me many of her friends saw that post and ask her what happen.
she don't want let others know and keep it be a secret.
then her friends will said somethings like "oh..good friend lar....good friend also don't tell us."
she told me that she just need a personal space in her life but not reject concern of friends.
finally she also told me the things about the post.
the guy will be gone oversea to study, but he don't know my friend like him.
So she write about her feeling at the moment and what will she do to put down the guy.
after i heard, i give her some advise.

i totally can understand her feeling and what she told me..
because i am also that kind of person..
sometime we will need some personal space to take out something...
but not all people realise that...
they only will think we like to keep it a sercet don't like to tell them, don't treat them as friend or other...
remember it
whatever relationship you and others into, all people need personal spaces.

by: Tan Yong Wei