Saturday, October 3, 2009

Eye As The Medium Of Communication..


Our eyes can tell millions of story. Agree?? The messages conveyed by our eyes can vary depending on the duration, direction, and the quality of the eye behaviour. For an example, if a person looks into another persons eye for quite sometime, we assume them as lovers, and if a person does not look into the eyes it may mean that he or she is a shy type person or they are just ignoring the person who is talking to them.

As the personal story of mine, eyes played an important role in my relationship. Altough we rarely talk to each another, somehow we got the message that we both are sailling in the same boat by liking each another. It happened so quickly and suprisingly we got the same message. The power of the eye contact that we had is still significant in both of us. Even when i recently asked him what made him attracted to me. And the answer was simply "your eyes, baby". That was when i realised that my eye contact was so strong.



We can also communicate a variety of message through eye movements. For an example, when X does not hear what Z said, X just have to put up his eyebrows and look at Z. Altough no verbal messages are passed, Z understands that he has to say again whatever he said. I believe we went through this situation before.

So, the next time you communicate, remember that your eyes are also telling something. make sure that your eyes and your verbal messages are the same to avoid certain circumstances. Good Luck!!

by:amutha supayah

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