Sunday, September 13, 2009

INTRAPERSONAL COMMUNICATIONS





         Most of the human beings go through this very important and crucial step in being able to communicate. Intra means self, getting personal with ourself.Intellectually,intrapersonal communications is our thoughts and conversations with ourselves.We all know that we must be able to communicate with ourself first before we can communicate with others.However in today's society,we are not encouraged to talk to ourselves.There is almost a stigmatism that a person is some how not ok if he or she is talking himself or herself.The irony is that,all successful peoples in the world,who succeed and achieve their dreams and desires,is the one whom talk to themselves.For example,when you tell yourself what you desire and see the image in your mind,you are bringing clarity to your desire.Many people have stated that much of their stress in life is from a feeling of not having any control of their life.The essential step in gaining control is getting a clear understanding with ourself,on what we want.Then we must be able to figure out the details of that desire and the steps necessary to achieve it.We will then be able to communicate with others what our wish and desires are.This will enable us to attract to what we need,to go where we want to head.It is important to remember that to achieve what we want in life is to master communication in order to master wealth and vice versa.
        
         I find that mastering intrapersonal skills can be challenging for many people.For instance,some women feel that it is not right to think about theirselves and that they should think about others first.The thing is,we cannot truly look after others until we take care of ourselves.Men,on the other hand,will say that "i do not have time for all this talking-to-ourself-tingy".On a deeper level,many are afraid of looking at what they want or desire.There is a fear of disappointment, not being able to do it or even of succeeding and what that might mean.There are many ways through the process of discovery and of finding the path to what you desire. The first step is just to begin.Start writing in a journal on the things you want in life and build on it from there.
      
         By writing,a person know what they want and how to go for it so their success is almost assured.Their communication skills with themselves are practiced and followed through on.I have also noticed that people who don't speak with themselves,will just quickly make a new years resolution and then forget about it.There is no clarity or details on what it is or how it will happen. There is no emotion or desire driving them towards it. Then another year goes by and they sit and wonder why hasn't anything changed.In a nutshell,we must start talking with ourselves today and really get to know ourself on a more personal level.

By:Sujatha Sahadevan

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